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Old Nov 30, 2008 | 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted by str8ryd
Fritz, I'm sure you don't want to hear this after the fact, but Ben seemed like a shady character when I first started talking to him. I warned my buddy Charlie and anyone else that asked me about him. He kept lying to me outright apparently thinking I wouldn't realize his story kept constantly changing. In the end, I'm extremelly happy I decided to avoid him and at the same time upset/saddened that you weren't able to do so. I hope everything works out though.
I agree and I never should of trusted him. I was trying to buy these parts along with the engine for 2 months. He sold the engine out from under me with zero communication. However he sold it for 1200 so someone got a great deal and if he'd done as promised w/ the parts I bought I would of benefitted from a good deal as well. No doubt at this point I feel incredibly stupid for sending him a check but that's what sucks about being a victim of any crime, all the anger etc...., bottomline is; I took a chance on Ben and it clearly didn't pay off.

I've spoken w/ him several times on the phone and I really think he's just a mixed up kid and not some professional con man but at the same time when you do damage to other humans or any living creature it dims your light a whole lot more than theirs. I've done some evil things in my life and recret every single one of them. Truth and honesty really is the key to happiness and that's why this forum and it's members should show a lot less hate and turn up the love ****, I know, I know but hey I just came from church
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Old Nov 30, 2008 | 01:22 PM
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Old Nov 30, 2008 | 01:39 PM
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fritz the tranny was delivered this morning only thing left of yours i have is the drive shaft and starter ben completely flaked on cleaning i guess thats above his pay grade

anyways just keep me informed on what you want to do with those two parts

oh by the way the motor he sold was rusted on the inside and had two stuck apex seals so you would have had to do a basic rebuild on it the guy that bought it found that out
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Old Nov 30, 2008 | 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted by driftfc87
fritz the tranny was delivered this morning only thing left of yours i have is the drive shaft and starter ben completely flaked on cleaning i guess thats above his pay grade

anyways just keep me informed on what you want to do with those two parts

oh by the way the motor he sold was rusted on the inside and had two stuck apex seals so you would have had to do a basic rebuild on it the guy that bought it found that out


Will do

Once again thanks for everything you've done for me it's been the bright side to an otherwise shady deal.

I haven't heard anything from Ben for over a week so I can only assume he's fine with stealing from me so I'll write a letter to Aaron tomorrow and let him know that cashing a check from someone with no regard for what that check was written for could be a problem.
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Old Dec 4, 2008 | 06:59 AM
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Ohhh man this whole thing is sickening. Sorry to hear such an outstanding and vital member of the forum is getting screwed like this. I know this doesn't help but I hope everything turns out ok for you on this deal.
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Old Dec 4, 2008 | 10:55 PM
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Rich and Hondahater I appreciate the well wishes and hopefully Ben and Aaron will do the right thing.
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Old Dec 6, 2008 | 08:23 PM
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Ben came and picked up the drive shaft and starter and also didnt clean or take any of his trash

when he got in contact with my mom he told her that he was moving in a week and that was on 12-4 dont know if its true or not
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Old Dec 7, 2008 | 09:06 PM
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This is getting really frustrating. It seems that Ben is logging in every day but can't ship these parts out. You need to post up Ben if you read this.

Last edited by rowtareh?; Dec 7, 2008 at 09:17 PM.
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Old Dec 8, 2008 | 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Rowtarded
This is getting really frustrating. It seems that Ben is logging in every day but can't ship these parts out. You need to post up Ben if you read this.
Ben PM'd me last night and we are again heading in the right direction.

Once this is completely settled I'll update the thread.
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Old Dec 8, 2008 | 04:16 PM
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That's good to know Fritz.
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Old Dec 15, 2008 | 09:39 AM
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Anything worth mentioning yet?
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Old Jan 6, 2009 | 08:17 AM
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Ben has completely resolved this situation.

Thanks for all the support from those that posted and PM'd me and an extra thanks to Steve for all his help with shipping etc....
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Old Jan 6, 2009 | 09:55 AM
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Great news
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Old Jan 6, 2009 | 08:04 PM
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No problem fritz it was my pleasure helping you out, your a cool guy and i know you would do the same thing if a forum member needed your help..

As far as ben goes it's good he did the right thing it should have never had to come to this. I hope the mods will never let this guy do business on the forums again.

Fritz next time you go to church pray for my little boy.

Thanks
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