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#76
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Originally posted by BigBoosting
I just wish people on this forum wouldn't be so damn judgemental. If you don't like it that someone didn't pay for their car, why do you feel it's your duty to let them know that in your opinion, they don't deserve the car? It's just rude and one of the reasons I don't really respect most of the people on this forum.
I just wish people on this forum wouldn't be so damn judgemental. If you don't like it that someone didn't pay for their car, why do you feel it's your duty to let them know that in your opinion, they don't deserve the car? It's just rude and one of the reasons I don't really respect most of the people on this forum.
I can understand the FD being "lethal" since it is a very capable vehicle. I personally think it all comes down to the individual. Maybe it's because I'm a girl that I don't rag it out or do anything dangerous ever in it, and I know guys tend to be more...brave...with cars. But again, that's a generalization. This guy could be the most mature 18 year old in the world but yet people make premature assumptions. That's the **** that gets on my nerves.
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Originally posted by jimlab
Even if it was given to you in the past and earned interest or did well in the stock market, it's still not "your" money. They might as well have just given you the car. It's exactly the same thing.
Even if it was given to you in the past and earned interest or did well in the stock market, it's still not "your" money. They might as well have just given you the car. It's exactly the same thing.
Just kidding Jim, I know you earned those stock options.
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Originally posted by daem0n
One last thing, the stereotype that younger people crashing this car is quite rediculous...I've seen just as many older drivers wreck their cars as younger drivers. Younger drivers might not have the experience but I imagine that they've just taken a fresh course in driving and don't have bad driving traits yet. Another couple reasons you may believe this stereotype is because younger people seem to be on the internet a bit more these days and I would imagine for an older person that can afford it, they probably use the FD as a second car or a summer/weekend car.
One last thing, the stereotype that younger people crashing this car is quite rediculous...I've seen just as many older drivers wreck their cars as younger drivers. Younger drivers might not have the experience but I imagine that they've just taken a fresh course in driving and don't have bad driving traits yet. Another couple reasons you may believe this stereotype is because younger people seem to be on the internet a bit more these days and I would imagine for an older person that can afford it, they probably use the FD as a second car or a summer/weekend car.
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Originally posted by jimlab
Who was making fun of anyone's financial position? I'm just saying be honest about it.
The hell I can't.
People who can afford to keep good tires on the car because their car payment doesn't consume the bulk of their earnings and aren't out trying to "drift" don't wreck their cars very often. The younger people ARE wrecking FDs, and if you don't believe that, you need to start reading more of the wreck posts in the 3rd gen. forum.
Who was making fun of anyone's financial position? I'm just saying be honest about it.
The hell I can't.
People who can afford to keep good tires on the car because their car payment doesn't consume the bulk of their earnings and aren't out trying to "drift" don't wreck their cars very often. The younger people ARE wrecking FDs, and if you don't believe that, you need to start reading more of the wreck posts in the 3rd gen. forum.
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Originally posted by dgeesaman
I don't think the young is the problem. Although young and dumb is a popular thing, the ones you're talking about do it out of stupidity, not youth. If that weren't true, I wouldn't see adult driving $40k SUVs on underinflated tires. The best you or I can do about it is learn 'em, not lecture them.
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I don't think the young is the problem. Although young and dumb is a popular thing, the ones you're talking about do it out of stupidity, not youth. If that weren't true, I wouldn't see adult driving $40k SUVs on underinflated tires. The best you or I can do about it is learn 'em, not lecture them.
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Originally posted by jimlab
That's fine. I don't respect people who lie about what they have or how they got it.
That's fine. I don't respect people who lie about what they have or how they got it.
Of course these people never made anything of themselves later in life.
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Originally posted by jimlab
Stereotypes exist because they're accurate a large percentage of the time, so it's safe to make the assumption. Obviously, there will always be exceptions to the rule, but they will be few and far between, statistically speaking. Like women drivers who know what they're doing behind the wheel of a car... my apologies if you don't fit that stereotype either.
Stereotypes exist because they're accurate a large percentage of the time, so it's safe to make the assumption. Obviously, there will always be exceptions to the rule, but they will be few and far between, statistically speaking. Like women drivers who know what they're doing behind the wheel of a car... my apologies if you don't fit that stereotype either.
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Originally posted by dgeesaman
Please, an open request: avoid bringing finances up in this forum, and grownups could stand to lay off the young owners since they're going to learn about their things the hard way anyhow. Better things to go grey about.
Dave
Please, an open request: avoid bringing finances up in this forum, and grownups could stand to lay off the young owners since they're going to learn about their things the hard way anyhow. Better things to go grey about.
Dave
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Originally posted by dgeesaman
Jim, I would have to stereotype you as Opinionated.
Jim, I would have to stereotype you as Opinionated.
I also thought of another factor: the PITA young drivers who are out ricing and wrecking FDs aren't on the forum.
I've also seen numerous "I wrecked my FD" threads posted by younger owners over the years, several of whom just posted "I got my FD" threads a few months prior. The most common cause of FD death by misadventure, just off the top of my head, involves wet pavement, bald tires (FD car payments can take a big bite out of a McDonald's paycheck...) and youthful "exuberance" (not to mention inexperience). When's the last time you saw a post by an older owner talking about totaling their car?
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BTW, just for the record, none of what I've posted was directed at dabigesii specifically. It was directed at the "me-toos" that show up in threads like this one to defend the honor of "young FD owners" and "young but excellent drivers" everywere...
Welcome to the forum, dabigesii. Enjoy your stay.
Welcome to the forum, dabigesii. Enjoy your stay.
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Originally posted by jimlab
No, but I see a lot of younger people bragging about buying their own FD who aren't honest enough to report that the name under "owner" on their registration isn't theirs. It's probably one of their parents or the name of a lending institution. That doesn't constitute ownership, just in case anyone was in doubt.
Sure, someone owns the car... but it's not you. Title in hand, in your name, legally signed, is what constitutes ownership of a car. How many people here can honestly say they truly own their cars? If you're under 18, put your hand down. You can't even sign the paperwork yet unless the laws in other states are different than in this one.
The same goes for bragging about paying for the car with your "own" money. If you've still got mom and dad's roof over your head and they're picking up damn near everything but the car payment (not to mention probably co-signing for it), then making your own car payments isn't really anything to brag about. Count your blessings, but don't brag about it until you're paying your own way for everything. A lot of people could afford to drive nicer cars if they still lived with their parents.
In the rare event the car actually was paid for outright, who really paid for it? Did mom and dad or another family member give the money to you at some point? Even if it was given to you in the past and earned interest or did well in the stock market, it's still not "your" money. They might as well have just given you the car. It's exactly the same thing. Did you work to earn the money from an external source to pay for the car all by yourself? If so, I salute you, but if you're pretending that you've accomplished more than you really have and you're bragging about it here, that's pretty lame.
I don't mind someone being enthusiastic about being a new owner, and I'm not one of the people who will say that younger owners don't "deserve" an FD. However, I am one of those people who thinks that younger owners should probably be cutting their teeth on something a little less lethal, and I do mind these me-too "I bought mine with my own money and I'm only xx years old" brag-fests because they're full of people "stretching the truth", to put it nicely.
Bottom line, I think most older owners object to younger owners because it's the younger owners who are trashing and wrecking FDs because most of them didn't earn them and don't have any real respect for them as a result. There are fewer and fewer of them as time goes on, and we're well aware of who we have to thank for them becoming more and more "elite"...
No, but I see a lot of younger people bragging about buying their own FD who aren't honest enough to report that the name under "owner" on their registration isn't theirs. It's probably one of their parents or the name of a lending institution. That doesn't constitute ownership, just in case anyone was in doubt.
Sure, someone owns the car... but it's not you. Title in hand, in your name, legally signed, is what constitutes ownership of a car. How many people here can honestly say they truly own their cars? If you're under 18, put your hand down. You can't even sign the paperwork yet unless the laws in other states are different than in this one.
The same goes for bragging about paying for the car with your "own" money. If you've still got mom and dad's roof over your head and they're picking up damn near everything but the car payment (not to mention probably co-signing for it), then making your own car payments isn't really anything to brag about. Count your blessings, but don't brag about it until you're paying your own way for everything. A lot of people could afford to drive nicer cars if they still lived with their parents.
In the rare event the car actually was paid for outright, who really paid for it? Did mom and dad or another family member give the money to you at some point? Even if it was given to you in the past and earned interest or did well in the stock market, it's still not "your" money. They might as well have just given you the car. It's exactly the same thing. Did you work to earn the money from an external source to pay for the car all by yourself? If so, I salute you, but if you're pretending that you've accomplished more than you really have and you're bragging about it here, that's pretty lame.
I don't mind someone being enthusiastic about being a new owner, and I'm not one of the people who will say that younger owners don't "deserve" an FD. However, I am one of those people who thinks that younger owners should probably be cutting their teeth on something a little less lethal, and I do mind these me-too "I bought mine with my own money and I'm only xx years old" brag-fests because they're full of people "stretching the truth", to put it nicely.
Bottom line, I think most older owners object to younger owners because it's the younger owners who are trashing and wrecking FDs because most of them didn't earn them and don't have any real respect for them as a result. There are fewer and fewer of them as time goes on, and we're well aware of who we have to thank for them becoming more and more "elite"...
Secondly, its pretty funny becasue on one hand you make comments about how cheap this car is so that anyone can afford it then you contradict yourself and makes statements to the effect that it is almost impossible for someone under the age of 30 to "own" one.
The bottom line is, who cares if the kid got his parents to pay for it or a loaning institution or he lives with his parents or he used a trust fund or whatever, the fact of the matter is he still owns (or at a minimum drives it around like he owns it) one and I don't see how the people on this forum can jump to sterotypes on these simple facts and reach conclusions about people they have never met before. It seems to me that the reasoning of most of the "older" forum members is that because a younger kid has the help of his parents, becasue they either paid for the car outright, or they loaned him the money, or he lives with them, whatever, the "older" members resent them. Under this reasoning we should be mad at every kid who goes to Disneyland with his parents because that little ****** is getting a free ride. I know this is an exaggeration but it illustrates my point that just becasue a younger person has the help of other people around him doesn't mean that he is less worthy, only that he is lucky. Be happy for him, not resentful.
Kevin
PS- What difference does it make if "younger" kids are trashing fds?? Are they trashing your fd?? If not then who ****** cares??
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Man o man, I knew you would take my words personally. You must have nothing better to do than make fun of pretty much everyone on this forum. I wonder if you have any friends in the "outside" world.
Well you SAID that someone who can afford a Civic can afford an FD and that it's not a "priviledged" group...on top of this you assumed that most people don't own their cars. If you were so rich yourself you would've been done your damn cylinder project like 10 years ago...maybe you'd be on better terms with people from the relief of stress too.
Yeah, because we know every single young person out there buys the FD to drift...wow, you really like stereotyping. I know maybe one person on these forums who've used the FD to drift. Most people can't afford to use an FD for drifting so they'll get something a bit cheaper and easier to maintain like a Toyota AE86 or even an FC.
Also, if you would actually read the words all together in the sentence instead of just looking at the words themselves you might understand what was going on. The reason a lot more younger people post about wrecking their FDs is most likely the fact that:
1) They bought the car recently and couldn't handle the power (while most older people have probably owned the car longer because they could afford it earlier...anytime since '93).
2) A lot more of people aged 20-30 use the internet and new technology - check the facts.
3) A lot of younger people wouldn't be embarassed about posting a wreck because they don't know about all the risks and life lessons that someone older might. And this in turn causes them to not realize that they might be making a fool out of themselves by posting their wreck....while someone older would most likely keep things to themself.
Anyway, two of these are just generalizations and the third is part fact so honestly who really cares, I'm just trying to back up my information here.
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One last thing, the stereotype that younger people crashing this car is quite rediculous...
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Spelling ridiculous with an "e" is ridiculous, but that's just my opinion.
Like I said before, if you actually read the sentences and paid attention to what I said, you'd stop nit-picking at the small things.
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I've seen just as many older drivers wreck their cars as younger drivers. Younger drivers might not have the experience but I imagine that they've just taken a fresh course in driving and don't have bad driving traits yet.
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Sure. OK. Whatever.
Yeah whatever is right - your opinions if they even are opinions are just rude. You post your information and let crap fall out of your mouth and spew it to the masses. No one likes someone that posts negative opinions and stereotypes all the time. When was the last time someone actually thought something you said was insightful or informational? Get a life, this is the internet...go fix your car.
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Originally posted by daem0n
Actually your post did go somewhere. Who cares who financed the car or what someone's financial situation is. Making "fun" of someone's financial situation is the most arragant thing I've ever heard on this forum.
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Who was making fun of anyone's financial position? I'm just saying be honest about it.
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Originally posted by daem0n
Actually your post did go somewhere. Who cares who financed the car or what someone's financial situation is. Making "fun" of someone's financial situation is the most arragant thing I've ever heard on this forum.
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Who was making fun of anyone's financial position? I'm just saying be honest about it.
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Honestly, you can't blame younger people for wrecking the FD...
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The hell I can't.
People who can afford to keep good tires on the car because their car payment doesn't consume the bulk of their earnings and aren't out trying to "drift" don't wreck their cars very often. The younger people ARE wrecking FDs, and if you don't believe that, you need to start reading more of the wreck posts in the 3rd gen. forum.
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Honestly, you can't blame younger people for wrecking the FD...
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The hell I can't.
People who can afford to keep good tires on the car because their car payment doesn't consume the bulk of their earnings and aren't out trying to "drift" don't wreck their cars very often. The younger people ARE wrecking FDs, and if you don't believe that, you need to start reading more of the wreck posts in the 3rd gen. forum.
Also, if you would actually read the words all together in the sentence instead of just looking at the words themselves you might understand what was going on. The reason a lot more younger people post about wrecking their FDs is most likely the fact that:
1) They bought the car recently and couldn't handle the power (while most older people have probably owned the car longer because they could afford it earlier...anytime since '93).
2) A lot more of people aged 20-30 use the internet and new technology - check the facts.
3) A lot of younger people wouldn't be embarassed about posting a wreck because they don't know about all the risks and life lessons that someone older might. And this in turn causes them to not realize that they might be making a fool out of themselves by posting their wreck....while someone older would most likely keep things to themself.
Anyway, two of these are just generalizations and the third is part fact so honestly who really cares, I'm just trying to back up my information here.
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One last thing, the stereotype that younger people crashing this car is quite rediculous...
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Spelling ridiculous with an "e" is ridiculous, but that's just my opinion.
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I've seen just as many older drivers wreck their cars as younger drivers. Younger drivers might not have the experience but I imagine that they've just taken a fresh course in driving and don't have bad driving traits yet.
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Sure. OK. Whatever.
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Originally posted by nickpapagiorgio
First of all, just because the title to the car is not in your name, but rather the name of a lending institution, does not mean that you don't own the car. Legally you own the car even if you are still paying it off.
First of all, just because the title to the car is not in your name, but rather the name of a lending institution, does not mean that you don't own the car. Legally you own the car even if you are still paying it off.
Therefore, just because the title is not in your name, doesn't mean that you don't own it, if that was true, then most of us won't own our houses.
Secondly, its pretty funny becasue on one hand you make comments about how cheap this car is so that anyone can afford it then you contradict yourself and makes statements to the effect that it is almost impossible for someone under the age of 30 to "own" one.
The bottom line is, who cares if the kid got his parents to pay for it or a loaning institution or he lives with his parents or he used a trust fund or whatever, the fact of the matter is he still owns (or at a minimum drives it around like he owns it) one and I don't see how the people on this forum can jump to sterotypes on these simple facts and reach conclusions about people they have never met before.
It seems to me that the reasoning of most of the "older" forum members is that because a younger kid has the help of his parents, becasue they either paid for the car outright, or they loaned him the money, or he lives with them, whatever, the "older" members resent them.
Under this reasoning we should be mad at every kid who goes to Disneyland with his parents because that little ****** is getting a free ride. I know this is an exaggeration but it illustrates my point that just becasue a younger person has the help of other people around him doesn't mean that he is less worthy, only that he is lucky.
PS- What difference does it make if "younger" kids are trashing fds?? Are they trashing your fd?? If not then who ****** cares??
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Originally posted by jimlab
Stereotypes exist because they're accurate a large percentage of the time, so it's safe to make the assumption. Like women drivers who know what they're doing behind the wheel of a car... my apologies if you don't fit that stereotype either.
Stereotypes exist because they're accurate a large percentage of the time, so it's safe to make the assumption. Like women drivers who know what they're doing behind the wheel of a car... my apologies if you don't fit that stereotype either.
-Women drivers are bad
-Black men have big dicks
-Mexicans are lazy
-Jewish people are all rich
-Native americans all sniff glue and are lazy
-Inuits are trouble makers and kill wildlife
-etc, etc, etc
If we lived by these stereotypes we'd have a great world ruled by the likes of Osama Bin Laden, Suddam, and maybe even Hitler. People like you shouldn't be allowed to post your opinions, we don't need them. (or want them)
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Originally posted by daem0n
Well you SAID that someone who can afford a Civic can afford an FD and that it's not a "priviledged" group...
Well you SAID that someone who can afford a Civic can afford an FD and that it's not a "priviledged" group...
on top of this you assumed that most people don't own their cars.
If you were so rich yourself you would've been done your damn cylinder project like 10 years ago...maybe you'd be on better terms with people from the relief of stress too.
Blah blah blah if you actually read the sentences and paid attention to what I said, you'd stop nit-picking at the small things.
Yeah whatever is right - your opinions if they even are opinions are just rude. You post your information and let crap fall out of your mouth and spew it to the masses. No one likes someone that posts negative opinions and stereotypes all the time.
When was the last time someone actually thought something you said was insightful or informational?
Get a life, this is the internet...go fix your car.
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Originally posted by nickpapagiorgio
Oh really? So if the bank decides to call in your loan, they can't just take the car you "legally" own and sell it to satisfy the debt?
Oh really? So if the bank decides to call in your loan, they can't just take the car you "legally" own and sell it to satisfy the debt?
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Originally posted by jimlab
"Nitpicking" isn't hyphenated...
"Nitpicking" isn't hyphenated...
Mine is paid for. Is yours? Apparently not, or you wouldn't be so incensed by what I have to say...
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Originally posted by daem0n
I incensed at the fact that you think you can judge these people.
I incensed at the fact that you think you can judge these people.
If we lived by these stereotypes we'd have a great world ruled by the likes of Osama Bin Laden, Suddam, and maybe even Hitler.
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I'm glad you think your lesson in life has been stupid...no wonder you have these horrible stereotypes. The sad part is that I'm younger than you and am on a whole different level much higher than you'll probably ever be. I'll be part of the elite group that understands other people, is tolerable and educated while you can be part of whatever group you think you're in.
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Just a word on these stereotypes.
Originally posted by daem0n
-Women drivers are bad----- True (even my mom scares me in the car)
-Jewish people are all rich----- False (im poor as dirt )
-Women drivers are bad----- True (even my mom scares me in the car)
-Jewish people are all rich----- False (im poor as dirt )
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Originally posted by jimlab
Oh really? So if the bank decides to call in your loan, they can't just take the car you "legally" own and sell it to satisfy the debt?
Oh really? So if the bank decides to call in your loan, they can't just take the car you "legally" own and sell it to satisfy the debt?
Originally posted by jimlab
You won't. Not until you're no longer obligated to pay someone else for the privilege of living there.
You won't. Not until you're no longer obligated to pay someone else for the privilege of living there.
Originally posted by jimlab
They are cheap. Younger owners couldn't possibly afford the payments if they weren't. Where's the contradiction?
They are cheap. Younger owners couldn't possibly afford the payments if they weren't. Where's the contradiction?
Originally posted by jimlab
Give it another 10 years or so. You may eventually understand.
Give it another 10 years or so. You may eventually understand.
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Not impressed by them would probably be more accurate. At least the ones who feel a need to brag about what they haven't earned themselves. Give it another 10 years or so. You may eventually understand.
Not impressed by them would probably be more accurate. At least the ones who feel a need to brag about what they haven't earned themselves. Give it another 10 years or so. You may eventually understand.
Originally posted by jimlab
True, but we're not talking about people who act like they appreciate the fact that they're lucky. We're talking about the spoiled brats looking for any excuse to brag. It's about as honorable as buying an Olympic medal in a pawn shop and then bragging to everyone that you won it. Give it another 10 years or so. You may eventually understand.
True, but we're not talking about people who act like they appreciate the fact that they're lucky. We're talking about the spoiled brats looking for any excuse to brag. It's about as honorable as buying an Olympic medal in a pawn shop and then bragging to everyone that you won it. Give it another 10 years or so. You may eventually understand.
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Use your own logic on your need to respond to my posts... why do you care what I say if it doesn't affect you?
Use your own logic on your need to respond to my posts... why do you care what I say if it doesn't affect you?
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Originally posted by daem0n
The sad part is that I'm younger than you and am on a whole different level much higher
The sad part is that I'm younger than you and am on a whole different level much higher
I'll be part of the elite group that understands other people, is tolerable and educated
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Originally posted by jimlab
"Whole different level much higher". Interesting.
That's funny, because the last thing I'd mistake you for is being educated...
"Whole different level much higher". Interesting.
That's funny, because the last thing I'd mistake you for is being educated...
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Originally posted by nickpapagiorgio
If they own the car, then I guess they can just come by whenever they want and take it for a spin huh?? Or even just come to your house with the title and take the car to sell.
If they own the car, then I guess they can just come by whenever they want and take it for a spin huh?? Or even just come to your house with the title and take the car to sell.
Seriously though, think about what you are arguing, that anyone who has a mortgage on their property doesn't own it. Do you really believe this??
If the "younger owners" can afford the payments then why are you arguing that they couldn't have possibly paid for it themselves??
In 10 years, I'll be almost 40
If you think thier bragging, that's your prerogative
Good point, I don't, I'm done with this post, peace.