Ok, I tapped the black wire on the top harness, its the only solid black one I could see, looks to be the 2nd one from the bottom on the top harness. When I start the car I get a nice startup on the af, and then it goes 1 red bar and fades out. Anyone have any ideas?

 

Have you let it idle for a while? Sometimes it takes a minute or so to get a reading.. Dunno why though..

 

the o2 sensor has to warm up to get a reading, I just ran the wire to the o2 sensor instead of tapping the harness. It's a little harder to do but will be cheaper if you mess anything up.