Also.....I went to change the gear oil and on the drain plug stuck to the magnet was verrrrry fine filings. Now is this bad or normal? I know they put magnets in the bottom of transmission pans to collect stray filings and it's somewhat normal to find them stuck to it.

 

Normal... but it looks like you already answered your own question.

 

Sounds like you know what your doing, I don't see the point of this thread.