Ok so I think this girl I have been going out with is cheating on me or lying to me one of the two. My reasons-A 26year old that came into her work a whole bunch of times gave her his phone number and she went over to his house and *watched a movie*Now I should mention that she is only 17.She supposdly was a virgin when we started going out but I dont think she was.I mean what kind of girl gets on top for the first time?Sorry for posting this in this section but I want the opinion of the guys up here in the north west not the guys 2500 miles away thanks!.

 

yeah, she told me the same thing. funny that she got on top with you too. i got pics also, did you? ha ha ha


j/k.... couldn't resist. had to laugh tonight.
well, first advice i can give you. is if you don't have the trust, you don't have anything.
too many girls will say they are a virgin at first, just to look inocent. hell, i used to do it also.
anyways, as it looks to me, you need to figure out if you are going to trust her or not. if not, she's not the girl for you. did i mention that all girls are bitches in one way or another.
good luck with your problem, but even if she is cheating on you, well, it will be a good lesson that 98% of us older guys have gone through a bunch of times.

 

probably should have gone to the lounge with that one. Too much drama going on here. Oh well, might as well just add to it.
As far as your wuestion goes... Do you see this relationship going anywhere in the first place? Maybe go "watch a movie" with her next time she heads over to his place. You could spy on her and tail her then walk in... But do you want to do that? I would just be blunt... "If you are cheating on me let me know, if you did cheat on me ITS OVER!" I can't stand cheaters so I am just telling you whow I would most likely handle the situation. Anyways... Good luck with that!?

 

I WOULD JUST GO AND BEAT THE LIVING CRAP OUT OF SOMEONE, NO QUESTIONS ASKED. but that was when i was younger.

 

dude you got owned. **** that filty ****...

 

I am pretty sure I got owned.I did see the relationship going some where but I dont really see that any more.Thanks for the advice fellers.

 

Drop her faster than she went down on that guy.

The older you get the more you realize you don't need girls, they need you. Don't waste you time with a girl that wouldn't do anything for you....

 

I sure hope she didnt do that to him it took me 7months to get my first bj from her.

 

^^^some people are slow movers...

 

Did you at least jump the curb on her?

 

Back-door?

 

Amazing the responses you get on a car forum. If you are posting this most likely you want some serious advice rather than to hear you should do her and dump her etc. First off you need to decide whether or not your trust her, what are the reasons you have to trust or not trust her? At 17 a girl doesnt know what she wants out of life much less a boyfriend, they usually don't figure that out until they are 30 or so. Are you in a relationship because you enjoy the relationship or do you just want sex? If you can't trust her you are just going to go through misery whether she is cheating on you or not. If you can trust her give it a chance until you get some hard proof she is cheating. I am sure your at the point where it is the former.

Now lets look at the difference between why women cheat and why men cheat. Men cheat for the thrill, excitement, the pleasure, something new. They might be bored with what they have or they might not but they enjoy the thrill of someone new and exciting. Men are goal oriented so getting a women into bed that they find attractive is an accomplishment. A lot of times they cheat because their physical needs (sex) are not being satisfied. Women are not like men. The biggest reason women cheat is because they aren't having their emotional needs satisfied so when someone comes along that does satisfied those needs (romance, compliments, communication, etc. even though it might just be an act from the guy) she takes the opportunity. Now women at 17 like I said don't know what they won't, often they cheat because they are confused and retarded but a lot of this still applies. You need to take a serious look at how you treat your girlfriend and communicate with her on a deep level to find out what isn't being satisfied. Another reason women cheat is because their partner cheats so they do it out of spite.

A virgin woman can take a long time in a relationship before she has sex for the first time, after that its up to her morals (religion) whether or not she does it again right away or whether she abstains from it. Usually once she has sex her first few times its all open and if she finds a guy that gives her what she wants she will take it. So if she did cheat on you after barely meeting the guy there is no reason to feel bad about it since she took so long to do it with you as your probably the one who opened the can of worms.

In short at 17 she has about 10 years to go before she mentally matures and can handle a relationship, and maybe you aren't quite there yet either so try not to let it get to you to much and move on with how you think is best.

Hope this helps you a bit if you want some more advice PM me.

 

Hey I've given up on relationships with girls they're too random. Just hump 'em and dump 'em... Besides my car is more reliable than every girl I've ever met.

 

women are like pringles once you pop the top they just cant stop! That's why you've got to get them before the college crazy sex run, or after they're over it.

 

yup... movie is code for sex. EVERYONE should know this...
Ive had many girls over for "movies" and not once have I finished an entire movie with any of them. The girls know this as well as the guys, when you go to someones house to watch movies, you will have sex. I thought this was common knowledge? Atleast it has been with everyone I know in real life.

 

Thats the DAMN truth, and my mazda is as reliable as a volkswagen sometimes!....

 

If you can find the right girl, it's great. I've been with my gf for over 2 years now. And she knows if she ever cheated on me, that'd be it... gone in a second, no consideration at all. Thing is, though, that she would never do that. She is a very caring and respectful person.

She's gonna be my little house-wife in a few years, just gotta get my damn BA/MBA done!

Anyways... don't waste your time on shady, lying, or cheating girls... it's a pointless waste of time.

 

You are both young.... so this is going to be a good learning experience any way you look at it. First off, girls can smell jealousy from a mile away, you do not want to be a jealous guy cause the girl will use this to her advantage to run all over you. No joke!!
Secondly, trust is huge in a relationship. You want to make it clear to her that you trust her. However, also make it clear that you will not tolerate cheating in any way shape or form. If she does cheat she will be kicked to the curb without hesitation. Wear the pants man!!!
Third, communicate!!! if she is having doubts or you are having doubts talk about them. If you let **** go without discussing it, it will continue to build. Although it may hurt initially, there is nothing worse than walking away without a resolution. Oh yeah, remember this.... there is nothing worse than a scorned woman.
If you want my honest opinion, have fun with her- get yours, and don't commit until after college. you will see what I mean when you get there.

 

the honest truth, took me a few trys to find the right girl. some of them really just don't know what they want... one minute its "i don't want a boyfriend" and the next second its a "i want a husband" or some crazy *** crap... trust me I know, my best friend is a girl and shes 19.... she has no idea what she wants from one moment to the next.

I'm 22... my GF is 22, she knows what she wants, got her teenager jollies out of her system and we love eachother more than anything else

 

Hell you're to young to worry about crap like that . Let her go and just write it off .When I was 21 I was going out with a 18 yr old and I just got sick and tired of her **** (no she never cheated on me,just nickled and dimed me to death) so one very rainy as she was whinning about that I should give her 100 bucks to go shopping , I pulled over on I-5 and told her to get out. She said no so I got out pulled my keys and started walking .She then got out and started yelling at me and I went over and locked and closed the door got back in my side and as she started bitching at me I pulled away .Went to a bar with my last 5 bucks,bought a beer and put the last buck into the video poker machine and then bam,won 125 bucks.Life works itself out sometimes ,just leave the ones who bring you down and you chalk it up for experience

 

It only akes one thing to make a girl happy. "how was your day?" Then you don't evev have to listen just the occaisional "Uh huh, yeaaa, uh huh" and then add the "I told you that bitch was crazy!" Cause every girl has some girl she works with and hates... Funny and true!

 

Ahhhhhhh. So sweet. You and Anna worked things out!!

 

all in favor of mabii leaving the b*tch and letting the oil unknowingly drain out of the 26 year olds car.....Say "I"!!!

 

whats oil ? *evil grin*

 

Just kill her! youll feel so much better