my high beams dont work so i suppose my relay has gone bad.

 

If the low beams work the the headlight relay is fine. If the high beams don't work then it's either a bad dimmer relay or (more likely) a bad switch. Look in the FSM wiring diagrams for location and wire colours of the relays. Look in the FSM Body Electrical System chapter for instructions on testing the dimmer relay.

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