About 19 years ago professional counseling was $50/hr. It was the best money I ever spent. I learned some things, and so did she. Serious time in serious discussion with a mutually respected professional is always the best first option..
Bill

 

Ok, I will never forget what my friend said to an incident like this "Oh man, all's you need to do is smack the **** outa her." Now I am not saying that this what you should do persay. Anyway, There will be no praying in this situation, God won't and will not help you. Ok got religion out of the way, next opt to do the get your wife into something idea. If you are a car freak than go and get her a car and do some dragging, drifting, just show her the ropes. It really seems like you too need to come back to the terms why you got married in the first place, which is really where you fucked up in the first place . Sorry just don't believe in the whole marriage thing. **** ends up like this. Anyway, become friends again, tickle, tease, and tantalize....I think those are the three T's can't remember. Take this like any other challenge in life and just go with it. Yes it will be hard but every challenge is.

 

Divorces are tough..(for the kids) although, when i was about 4 years younger, i feared my parents getting adivorce, but, even though they still love each-other very much, i wouldnt really care all THAT much if the got one..it wouldnt bother me..kinda weird, maybe you should sit down with your wife and kids, ask yourself, are your girls worth it enough to not get a divorce, its hard on little kids..i think people who get divroces are shelfish to their children, b/c they are putting a huge dent and inconvience in their kids lives b/c they dont love the person they promised the rest of their life to..to love, to hold and care when in sickness..plus, divorce is expensive..I wouldnt recomend, it, unless being away from your wife, as well as your kids most of the time, so you can go out with friends you will probably end up with fighting with anyway is worth it..

write on a peice of paper

pros | cons


that might help..