when i turn on the AC it kills the idle down to like 500 rpm where the motor shakes incredibly violently. Its becoming hot as **** this summer but i have yet to turn it on while under throttle.

i have the PS removed and have the manual bracket, so itll be easy to remove...but once i do all the freon will escape and any attempt to put it back on will cost me a minimum of 80 bux..

 

There are one or two seperate air bleed solinoids in the rack.
Run a wire with a diode in it from the AC clutch to the bleed valve.

 

There are no bleed valves on the solenoid rack that would increase idle speed.

Why don't you just put the BAC valve back on and keep your A/C? That's what it's for.