Valentines day, advice on picking up at cakes
I'm with you on Valentine's Day being overrated. It is a made up holiday by greeting card companies to bring in more income. Somehow, America fell for it. Darn romantics!
Edit: Ah darn, now I'm getting V-Day ads on 7club...
Edit: Ah darn, now I'm getting V-Day ads on 7club...
some of the most good looking girls are also the most lonely one's and its cause alot of guy's are afraid to approach them. that's why you alway's see those "how did that **** happen..?" couple's..those geeks dont know any better so they end up scoring the girl. weird ****.
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some of the most good looking girls are also the most lonely one's and its cause alot of guy's are afraid to approach them. that's why you alway's see those "how did that **** happen..?" couple's..those geeks dont know any better so they end up scoring the girl. weird ****.
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some of the most good looking girls are also the most lonely one's and its cause alot of guy's are afraid to approach them. that's why you alway's see those "how did that **** happen..?" couple's..those geeks dont know any better so they end up scoring the girl. weird ****.
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From: el monte, spanish for...the monte
some of the most good looking girls are also the most lonely one's and its cause alot of guy's are afraid to approach them. that's why you alway's see those "how did that **** happen..?" couple's..those geeks dont know any better so they end up scoring the girl. weird ****.
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From: el monte, spanish for...the monte
so me and DK went to meet this chick at the boba place. we pulled the old back to the future move where i rough her up and he comes and punches me in the face. it'll be on youtube tonight. looks like DK's gonna score!
lol damn....This is the oppurtunity... that would suck if it became another what if...lol IL do IT!!!!
Im pumped up yeahh!! lol lmao...just wait till I see her again, Im ging to go from pumped up to nothing hahahhaa
Im pumped up yeahh!! lol lmao...just wait till I see her again, Im ging to go from pumped up to nothing hahahhaa
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From: LOS ANGELES, HAWTHORNE
in the wise words of tom leykis be at a bar, most bitches who are going to be lonely that day are going to be drinking and getting drunk, so that way you spend less on them, ill let him do the talking!!
http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WcS66NsI7tI
leykis 101!!
http://http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WcS66NsI7tI
leykis 101!!
Guess I'll be the married dude jumping in here with an attempt at some actual advice...
#1 rule, you need to stop worrying so much about finding the one and work more on becoming the one for someone else. That means you have a life of your own, you know hobbies, you're not a cling-on, you invite other folks in (be a good host in group settings), you've got enough self confidence that you don't have to show off, and you're not afraid to laugh at yourself a bit.
Don't trip on the V-day thing... Like the fellas said it's just a day. You need a long run view if you want to find the good ones. Make a point to talk to her and say hello, ask her opinion on something besides the weather. Find a way to bring her into the conversation if you're there with a group of friends. (Who's the better batman Ledger or Nicholson, why?) Hell, ask if when she has a break and if you can buy her a Boba while she comes and joins your crew for a bit. Getting the name over small talk is a good start. You just need to be friendly but not needy...
One line for you that actually works... If you're talking again and you think she's forgotten your name don't be afraid to work it into the conversation. Tell some crazy story about yourself or something you saw and then drop something like, "it was about this time I said to myself 'Joel (<-insert your name here) what the heck did you get yourself into' " and then continue your story. Crazy stuff about work, school, road rage, it doesn't matter just get her smiling and ask her questions that tell her you're actually interested if she has a brain in addition to a body. "I can't believe this professor I've got, he's like the anti-christ... blah blah blah... How about you? What's the craziest teacher you've ever had?" No crazies, then "OK, so what do you think makes a good professor" The ability to be engaging and ask good questions is all the game you'll ever need.
Now for the asking out part: Ask her if she likes dancing and tell her you're getting a crew together to try out some swing dance place that has lessons (Lindy Groove in Pasadena, Thursday nights...) Tell her you might be terrible but you think it'll be a good time if she'd like to join. If she hesistates, ask her if she'd like to bring some girlfriends. If you're not into dancing tell her you heard about the craziest play ever (-> "Point Break Live" in LA look it up) where they reinact the movie and pull someone to play Keanu Reeve out of the audience to read flash cards because he's so terrible. Basically find something more out of the ordinary than your typical movie so that you've got something to talk about next time and that you think she'd actually want to go do.
Final hint: "It's V-day and I'm lonely, wanna go out?" Is NOT something she's gonna want to do.
-Joel
#1 rule, you need to stop worrying so much about finding the one and work more on becoming the one for someone else. That means you have a life of your own, you know hobbies, you're not a cling-on, you invite other folks in (be a good host in group settings), you've got enough self confidence that you don't have to show off, and you're not afraid to laugh at yourself a bit.
Don't trip on the V-day thing... Like the fellas said it's just a day. You need a long run view if you want to find the good ones. Make a point to talk to her and say hello, ask her opinion on something besides the weather. Find a way to bring her into the conversation if you're there with a group of friends. (Who's the better batman Ledger or Nicholson, why?) Hell, ask if when she has a break and if you can buy her a Boba while she comes and joins your crew for a bit. Getting the name over small talk is a good start. You just need to be friendly but not needy...
One line for you that actually works... If you're talking again and you think she's forgotten your name don't be afraid to work it into the conversation. Tell some crazy story about yourself or something you saw and then drop something like, "it was about this time I said to myself 'Joel (<-insert your name here) what the heck did you get yourself into' " and then continue your story. Crazy stuff about work, school, road rage, it doesn't matter just get her smiling and ask her questions that tell her you're actually interested if she has a brain in addition to a body. "I can't believe this professor I've got, he's like the anti-christ... blah blah blah... How about you? What's the craziest teacher you've ever had?" No crazies, then "OK, so what do you think makes a good professor" The ability to be engaging and ask good questions is all the game you'll ever need.
Now for the asking out part: Ask her if she likes dancing and tell her you're getting a crew together to try out some swing dance place that has lessons (Lindy Groove in Pasadena, Thursday nights...) Tell her you might be terrible but you think it'll be a good time if she'd like to join. If she hesistates, ask her if she'd like to bring some girlfriends. If you're not into dancing tell her you heard about the craziest play ever (-> "Point Break Live" in LA look it up) where they reinact the movie and pull someone to play Keanu Reeve out of the audience to read flash cards because he's so terrible. Basically find something more out of the ordinary than your typical movie so that you've got something to talk about next time and that you think she'd actually want to go do.
Final hint: "It's V-day and I'm lonely, wanna go out?" Is NOT something she's gonna want to do.
-Joel
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Guess I'll be the married dude jumping in here with an attempt at some actual advice...
#1 rule, you need to stop worrying so much about finding the one and work more on becoming the one for someone else. That means you have a life of your own, you know hobbies, you're not a cling-on, you invite other folks in (be a good host in group settings), you've got enough self confidence that you don't have to show off, and you're not afraid to laugh at yourself a bit.
Don't trip on the V-day thing... Like the fellas said it's just a day. You need a long run view if you want to find the good ones. Make a point to talk to her and say hello, ask her opinion on something besides the weather. Find a way to bring her into the conversation if you're there with a group of friends. (Who's the better batman Ledger or Nicholson, why?) Hell, ask if when she has a break and if you can buy her a Boba while she comes and joins your crew for a bit. Getting the name over small talk is a good start. You just need to be friendly but not needy...
One line for you that actually works... If you're talking again and you think she's forgotten your name don't be afraid to work it into the conversation. Tell some crazy story about yourself or something you saw and then drop something like, "it was about this time I said to myself 'Joel (<-insert your name here) what the heck did you get yourself into' " and then continue your story. Crazy stuff about work, school, road rage, it doesn't matter just get her smiling and ask her questions that tell her you're actually interested if she has a brain in addition to a body. "I can't believe this professor I've got, he's like the anti-christ... blah blah blah... How about you? What's the craziest teacher you've ever had?" No crazies, then "OK, so what do you think makes a good professor" The ability to be engaging and ask good questions is all the game you'll ever need.
Now for the asking out part: Ask her if she likes dancing and tell her you're getting a crew together to try out some swing dance place that has lessons (Lindy Groove in Pasadena, Thursday nights...) Tell her you might be terrible but you think it'll be a good time if she'd like to join. If she hesistates, ask her if she'd like to bring some girlfriends. If you're not into dancing tell her you heard about the craziest play ever (-> "Point Break Live" in LA look it up) where they reinact the movie and pull someone to play Keanu Reeve out of the audience to read flash cards because he's so terrible. Basically find something more out of the ordinary than your typical movie so that you've got something to talk about next time and that you think she'd actually want to go do.
Final hint: "It's V-day and I'm lonely, wanna go out?" Is NOT something she's gonna want to do.
-Joel
#1 rule, you need to stop worrying so much about finding the one and work more on becoming the one for someone else. That means you have a life of your own, you know hobbies, you're not a cling-on, you invite other folks in (be a good host in group settings), you've got enough self confidence that you don't have to show off, and you're not afraid to laugh at yourself a bit.
Don't trip on the V-day thing... Like the fellas said it's just a day. You need a long run view if you want to find the good ones. Make a point to talk to her and say hello, ask her opinion on something besides the weather. Find a way to bring her into the conversation if you're there with a group of friends. (Who's the better batman Ledger or Nicholson, why?) Hell, ask if when she has a break and if you can buy her a Boba while she comes and joins your crew for a bit. Getting the name over small talk is a good start. You just need to be friendly but not needy...
One line for you that actually works... If you're talking again and you think she's forgotten your name don't be afraid to work it into the conversation. Tell some crazy story about yourself or something you saw and then drop something like, "it was about this time I said to myself 'Joel (<-insert your name here) what the heck did you get yourself into' " and then continue your story. Crazy stuff about work, school, road rage, it doesn't matter just get her smiling and ask her questions that tell her you're actually interested if she has a brain in addition to a body. "I can't believe this professor I've got, he's like the anti-christ... blah blah blah... How about you? What's the craziest teacher you've ever had?" No crazies, then "OK, so what do you think makes a good professor" The ability to be engaging and ask good questions is all the game you'll ever need.
Now for the asking out part: Ask her if she likes dancing and tell her you're getting a crew together to try out some swing dance place that has lessons (Lindy Groove in Pasadena, Thursday nights...) Tell her you might be terrible but you think it'll be a good time if she'd like to join. If she hesistates, ask her if she'd like to bring some girlfriends. If you're not into dancing tell her you heard about the craziest play ever (-> "Point Break Live" in LA look it up) where they reinact the movie and pull someone to play Keanu Reeve out of the audience to read flash cards because he's so terrible. Basically find something more out of the ordinary than your typical movie so that you've got something to talk about next time and that you think she'd actually want to go do.
Final hint: "It's V-day and I'm lonely, wanna go out?" Is NOT something she's gonna want to do.
-Joel
Other than that, thank you for that post!