I need to remove the female harness off the driver door jam, its the one that connects every thing from the drivers door to whatever up in the dash area..

I've taken off the male part of the harness that connects from the speakers, power windows/locks etc. off, but I cant fugure out a way to take off the female part..

 

n/m I got sick of it and cut the bastard out hehe

oh just in case anyone was wondering how to disconnect it the proper way

1) pull out the red tab on the top, on the outside part

2) reach in the little hole underneath the dash and press on the button(this is a physical impossiblilty, the hole is about 2" diameter and the button is about 2.5" deep in)