the grounding bolt for the starters connection is stripped out, I can't take it out or put it back in or anything, I found this out when I was replacing the clutch on my car

What are my options to getting a working starter now? The starter works fine but it's the wiring to it that is the problem, I don't like push starting my car

 

just get a junk yard starter or ebay one... they usually are only $25

 

Are you talking about one of the connections to the solenoid on the starter? I had one of these strip out (actually the battery + connection, not the ground) and I replaced the solenoid with a new part from Autozone for about $25.00. Check out the Autozone website.