Possibly blown coolant seal?
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Jeff, Ive been in therapy from age 6-17. Its nothing more than what you already know that is said and repeated to you over and over. They cant help you because they dont have the same mental problems and variations/combinations of it, so they cant give you true experiential advice. My willpower is strong enough to help myself, which I did, so that I dont have to be in all that bullshit. I was old enough then to make my own choices so I stopped going to that bullshit, and stopped taking pills which is only a placebo to people with weaker willpower. This is how Ive helped her because I know what shes feeling, and no one else has ever been able to help her like I have. Shes finally much better and all problems are gone just like that when Im with her.
Youd choose a car, material built up from natural resources from the earth that can definitely be remade from current inventory and recycled to make more, over another being which there is only one of who means much more to you than anything? Seeing as youre spending so much time posting on the forums, you must not have that great of a love life. Your car is your life partner as I see it with you arguing against the fact.
I feel like this is turning to the same thread I put up in December. Ill just leave this thread like I did to the last one like this as there is no point in arguing with other people about my relationship when they have no clue or experience with something like mine.
Youd choose a car, material built up from natural resources from the earth that can definitely be remade from current inventory and recycled to make more, over another being which there is only one of who means much more to you than anything? Seeing as youre spending so much time posting on the forums, you must not have that great of a love life. Your car is your life partner as I see it with you arguing against the fact.
I feel like this is turning to the same thread I put up in December. Ill just leave this thread like I did to the last one like this as there is no point in arguing with other people about my relationship when they have no clue or experience with something like mine.
The thing with therapy is that the therapist and everyone else can see what is wrong. The patient can see the symptoms created by their condition/abnormality/mental state, but they can't see the root of their problem. The therapists goal and role is to get the patient to the point where they can see what it is that everyone else can see..and thus create an environment where the patient is working towards getting rid of the symptoms caused by the condition by changing the condition at it's core.
You clearly do not see your condition, you clearly do not heed advice, especially based on your comments:
"My willpower is strong enough to help myself, which I did, so that I dont have to be in all that bullshit. I was old enough then to make my own choices so I stopped going to that bullshit, and stopped taking pills which is only a placebo to people with weaker willpower"
You haven't heeded the advice of your therapists who are trained to know better, you haven't heeded specific advice about your car from people who know better. You have a pattern of your "strong will" putting a wall between you and logic/reason.
Last thing I've got to say is that you are very mistaken about love in a way that only a codependent person can be wrong. Love is not about sacrificing your life for the object of your love. It's a common ideology of one-sided relationships where the person giving up their time, money, effort, etc rationalizes that by martyring themselves they are more in love because of their willingness to give up their life. "Look how much I love this person, I'm willing to drive cross country in a broken car..."
Further more if this girl was any kind of a person she would not allow you to drive your car cross country to come "fix" her. Hell if she was any kind of a person she would have the self-respect to fix herself rather than put her problems off on you. She is probably very egocentric and narcissistic without knowing she is. If she knows your car could be on it's last leg and still condones you driving to see her...well that is a HUGE red flag. Her needs are greater than your needs and she will eat you alive to fix herself. Again..another sign of codependent relationship....
Good luck on this trip you are dead set on taking. I don't understand you creating the thread in the first place, just like I don't understand why you'd go to therapy and not heed the advice you got there. Guess your will is greater than people who know better.
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Dude, when scoping for chicks don't go with fixer uppers. Trust me. They'll just break again. Use those chicks as bang and clangs.
You haven't heeded the advice of your therapists who are trained to know better, you haven't heeded specific advice about your car from people who know better. You have a pattern of your "strong will" putting a wall between you and logic/reason.
Last thing I've got to say is that you are very mistaken about love in a way that only a codependent person can be wrong. Love is not about sacrificing your life for the object of your love. It's a common ideology of one-sided relationships where the person giving up their time, money, effort, etc rationalizes that by martyring themselves they are more in love because of their willingness to give up their life. "Look how much I love this person, I'm willing to drive cross country in a broken car..."
Further more if this girl was any kind of a person she would not allow you to drive your car cross country to come "fix" her. Hell if she was any kind of a person she would have the self-respect to fix herself rather than put her problems off on you. She is probably very egocentric and narcissistic without knowing she is. If she knows your car could be on it's last leg and still condones you driving to see her...well that is a HUGE red flag. Her needs are greater than your needs and she will eat you alive to fix herself. Again..another sign of codependent relationship....
Last thing I've got to say is that you are very mistaken about love in a way that only a codependent person can be wrong. Love is not about sacrificing your life for the object of your love. It's a common ideology of one-sided relationships where the person giving up their time, money, effort, etc rationalizes that by martyring themselves they are more in love because of their willingness to give up their life. "Look how much I love this person, I'm willing to drive cross country in a broken car..."
Further more if this girl was any kind of a person she would not allow you to drive your car cross country to come "fix" her. Hell if she was any kind of a person she would have the self-respect to fix herself rather than put her problems off on you. She is probably very egocentric and narcissistic without knowing she is. If she knows your car could be on it's last leg and still condones you driving to see her...well that is a HUGE red flag. Her needs are greater than your needs and she will eat you alive to fix herself. Again..another sign of codependent relationship....
Also most people on here have no life to be sitting on here, reading hours on end of past threads, being entertained through that to this thread instead of entertaining themselves with their cars in empty parking lots, on the track, car meets or simply being entertained by doing projects on their car and test driving them. Shows how much of an "enthusiast" they are.
i think youll make it if u stop let it cool off and fill the coolent several times or many times.
just make sure u dont drive that extra mile when it does start heating up or u may make the condition worse and be fucked!
do the drive and post the results! godspeed!
just make sure u dont drive that extra mile when it does start heating up or u may make the condition worse and be fucked!
do the drive and post the results! godspeed!
Now this thread is just for people with no love from their children or wives/husbands who need these type of posts for their highlight of the day. The RX-7 forums give them more action than they get on the bed.
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Ok Larz, youre stupid. If they dont love you as much as you love them, of course theyll break again because youre not enough. That isnt my girlfriend.
There is no true love in one sided relationships. Both have to work together. Simple as that without typing a paragraph about it. Driving long distance shows one of the endless things Id do for her.
Also most people on here have no life to be sitting on here, reading hours on end of past threads, being entertained through that to this thread instead of entertaining themselves with their cars in empty parking lots, on the track, car meets or simply being entertained by doing projects on their car and test driving them. Shows how much of an "enthusiast" they are.
This has been my plan all along even before any engine problems. Id stop for about 40 minutes to an hour after a good distance to let my car cool down, get on the road again, then repeat for the rest of the way.
Now this thread is just for people with no love from their children or wives/husbands who need these type of posts for their highlight of the day. The RX-7 forums give them more action than they get on the bed.
There is no true love in one sided relationships. Both have to work together. Simple as that without typing a paragraph about it. Driving long distance shows one of the endless things Id do for her.
Also most people on here have no life to be sitting on here, reading hours on end of past threads, being entertained through that to this thread instead of entertaining themselves with their cars in empty parking lots, on the track, car meets or simply being entertained by doing projects on their car and test driving them. Shows how much of an "enthusiast" they are.
This has been my plan all along even before any engine problems. Id stop for about 40 minutes to an hour after a good distance to let my car cool down, get on the road again, then repeat for the rest of the way.
Now this thread is just for people with no love from their children or wives/husbands who need these type of posts for their highlight of the day. The RX-7 forums give them more action than they get on the bed.
These girls do this so you feel bad for them, they are just looking for sympathy not love and claim to "fall in love" very quickly. You both have very toxic personalities and should stay as far away from each other as possible but there is absolutely no way that is going to happen.
I was reading an article earlier and it 100% matched exactly what you are saying
4. The Bitter Girl. This woman is quick to let you know that everything sucks, and she’s so mistreated by everyone. (You could also call her Miss Lemony Snicket, since her life seems to be a never-ending series of unfortunate events.) However, you didn’t cause Bitter Girl’s troubles — and you can’t cure them, either. In fact, you’ll be her next excuse for why things are going so horribly wrong in her life. Your real nightmare begins when you start to feel a little like Lemony Snicket yourself, and your once-positive nature gets overwhelmed by her perpetually gloomy outlook and daily dose of misery.
You will learn as you grow up, you will be hurt a few times, just remember that everyone experiences it and it isn't that big of a deal.
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I wish the next guy she is with would be on this forum as well so he can tell us how Kenshin emotionally abused her or whatever else she tells him about everyone else.
These girls do this so you feel bad for them, they are just looking for sympathy not love and claim to "fall in love" very quickly. You both have very toxic personalities and should stay as far away from each other as possible but there is absolutely no way that is going to happen.
I was reading an article earlier and it 100% matched exactly what you are saying
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4. The Bitter Girl. This woman is quick to let you know that everything sucks, and she’s so mistreated by everyone. (You could also call her Miss Lemony Snicket, since her life seems to be a never-ending series of unfortunate events.) However, you didn’t cause Bitter Girl’s troubles — and you can’t cure them, either. In fact, you’ll be her next excuse for why things are going so horribly wrong in her life. Your real nightmare begins when you start to feel a little like Lemony Snicket yourself, and your once-positive nature gets overwhelmed by her perpetually gloomy outlook and daily dose of misery.
10 toxic types you shouldn
You will learn as you grow up, you will be hurt a few times, just remember that everyone experiences it and it isn't that big of a deal.
These girls do this so you feel bad for them, they are just looking for sympathy not love and claim to "fall in love" very quickly. You both have very toxic personalities and should stay as far away from each other as possible but there is absolutely no way that is going to happen.
I was reading an article earlier and it 100% matched exactly what you are saying
Quote:
4. The Bitter Girl. This woman is quick to let you know that everything sucks, and she’s so mistreated by everyone. (You could also call her Miss Lemony Snicket, since her life seems to be a never-ending series of unfortunate events.) However, you didn’t cause Bitter Girl’s troubles — and you can’t cure them, either. In fact, you’ll be her next excuse for why things are going so horribly wrong in her life. Your real nightmare begins when you start to feel a little like Lemony Snicket yourself, and your once-positive nature gets overwhelmed by her perpetually gloomy outlook and daily dose of misery.
10 toxic types you shouldn
You will learn as you grow up, you will be hurt a few times, just remember that everyone experiences it and it isn't that big of a deal.
You dont want to provoke my ******* anger.
These forums in these type of sections are for whatever topic the thread is about, not for any of your feedback on any personal bullshit other than the ******* topic.
Those that have stuck to and posted about the topic ONLY about the car, thank you. And for the others, why dont you focus on the ******* cars which is being discussed other than throw useless lectures about all the shitty relationships and piece of **** women youve encountered that have made you the type of person you are now. Ive been there many times in the past, youre acting like I dont know what Im dealing with in a relationship that you never had. Ive sacrificed and suffered in the past, and now I have the single most beautiful and perfect relationship than I have ever dreamt of. So all of you shut the **** up now. Shut the **** up in your own dysfunctional marriage and relationships.
Ill post the after results of the cars journey 2000 miles in its condition. Almost 600 miles on its current condition and running the same.
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#95
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You gotta be kidding me??? Are you seriously threatening people on a forum thread? You can't even afford a plane ticket to see the "greatest woman who ever lived" Are you seriously trying to say that you would drive your broken car thousands of miles to extract your emo rage (on someone's car while they are working)?
Or if you'd prefer
Ok, you are a hypocrite of the highest order. Stop talking about how amazing your love is and how no one has ever loved before like you are in love. Change starts with you....If you don't want to fight...then um...stop fighting???
Are you taking into account the damage you are doing to the internals of your engine which you will not know until your engine builder opens up your engine? You very well may find that you finally rebuild the engine only to find that you've got bad pitting. Or that you have a weak coolant seal wall that might have been ok if you had not put 3000 miles on the engine BEFORE fixing it? Or a simple pragmatic cause and effect, if you are fouling your plugs from your coolant seal failure then you are probably getting shitty gas mileage on top of the fact that you are eating up $30 worth of plugs or that you are having to spend on coolant to top off.
Or if you'd prefer
Are you taking into account the damage you are doing to the internals of your engine which you will not know until your engine builder opens up your engine? You very well may find that you finally rebuild the engine only to find that you've got bad pitting. Or that you have a weak coolant seal wall that might have been ok if you had not put 3000 miles on the engine BEFORE fixing it? Or a simple pragmatic cause and effect, if you are fouling your plugs from your coolant seal failure then you are probably getting shitty gas mileage on top of the fact that you are eating up $30 worth of plugs or that you are having to spend on coolant to top off.
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ya thinking about it he may have wait a fairly significant time for it to cool off....
In theory he can make it there, in practicality no...
significant risks are overheating to point of additional damage and flooding.
I drove my na-t with a blown coolent seal for a over a year and put a few thousand miles on it
Ussually it would start heating up after an hr of driving, id pull over wait a bit carefully remove cap with a thick rag, and add water and to overflow as well And burp the system. Then i could keep going a good ways
It was very prone to hot start flooding( what he may run into after letting it sit between jaunts and probably be the highest risk besides going to far) and fouling plugs.
I just ran straight water to keep the cost of driving down. And kept extra plugs and make sure you have a good charged battery.
Do i care about the damage to the engine? No. it was a 100 dollar junkyard special na motor...
I eventually pulled it out and havnt touched that block since. And put a fresh rebuilt t2 motor in instead of rebuilding that junk block.
In theory he can make it there, in practicality no...
significant risks are overheating to point of additional damage and flooding.
I drove my na-t with a blown coolent seal for a over a year and put a few thousand miles on it
Ussually it would start heating up after an hr of driving, id pull over wait a bit carefully remove cap with a thick rag, and add water and to overflow as well And burp the system. Then i could keep going a good ways
It was very prone to hot start flooding( what he may run into after letting it sit between jaunts and probably be the highest risk besides going to far) and fouling plugs.
I just ran straight water to keep the cost of driving down. And kept extra plugs and make sure you have a good charged battery.
Do i care about the damage to the engine? No. it was a 100 dollar junkyard special na motor...
I eventually pulled it out and havnt touched that block since. And put a fresh rebuilt t2 motor in instead of rebuilding that junk block.
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significant risks are overheating to point of additional damage and flooding.