ok so yesterday i was working on my car changing the oil plugs and rotor cap b/c it has been a little over do. but anyways after i was done it being about 8:00 and alredy dark i decided to go to a friends that lives only about 2 miles away, so as i am driving to his house i get to his street and my headlights dont just turn off they fall down all together i mean they just fell and shut off. but all they other lights stay on so i slowed down and drove very carefully the rest of the way to his house, when i get there to my suprise i have no blown fuses and every thing is hooked up. so my question is why the hell did not only my headlights but the headlight motors stop working!!!!

 

You mean they just turned themselves off as you were driving? I'd check continutity on the cluster switch. Here's a link to the service manuals. One of them will have a diagram of the connections.
http://www.wankel.net/~krwright/cars/rx7/manuals.html